
Couples Therapy Intensives with Dr. Lee Phillips
Focused Relationship Repair. Deep Relational Work. Meaningful Change.
Some relationships reach a point where one hour a week simply isn't enough.
The conflict feels too entrenched. The betrayal too painful. The conversations too emotionally charged to resolve in brief sessions spaced days or weeks apart. When couples find themselves at a crossroads, a concentrated therapeutic experience can provide the space, structure, and momentum needed to move forward.
I offer private Couples Therapy Intensives in New York City for couples seeking focused, in-depth support. These extended sessions are designed for partners who want to address significant relationship challenges in a single, immersive experience, rather than at the slower pace of traditional weekly therapy.
Couples often seek an intensive when they are navigating:
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Infidelity, betrayal, or breaches of trust
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Chronic conflict and recurring arguments
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Emotional disconnection or withdrawal
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Sexual dissatisfaction or desire discrepancies
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Challenges related to non-monogamy or relationship agreements
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Life transitions impacting intimacy and connection
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Communication breakdowns
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Questions about the future of the relationship
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Rebuilding after periods of crisis or significant loss
A Structured and Personalized Process
Every intensive begins before we meet.
Before the intensive, each partner attends an individual consultation and completes a comprehensive assessment. This process helps me understand the relationship's history, identify the patterns that contribute to distress, and develop a tailored roadmap for the intensive.
Rather than spending valuable time gathering background information, the intensive day begins with a clear understanding of the relationship's strengths, vulnerabilities, and goals.
What to Expect
Intensives are typically offered as a one-day experience with six to eight hours of dedicated couples therapy.
The extended format enables us to move beyond surface-level communication strategies and explore the deeper emotional, relational, and sexual dynamics that shape your relationship.
Throughout the day, couples receive guidance in:
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Understanding attachment patterns and emotional triggers
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Interrupting destructive conflict cycles
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Repairing trust after betrayal
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Navigating difficult conversations with greater emotional safety
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Exploring intimacy, desire, and sexual connection
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Clarifying relationship needs, boundaries, and agreements
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Building practical strategies for ongoing growth
The work is structured yet flexible, allowing space for both insight and meaningful emotional experiences that often cannot arise in a traditional 50-minute session.
A Unique Integration of Relationship and Sex Therapy
As a licensed psychotherapist, relationship therapist, and nationally recognized sex therapist, I bring a unique perspective to intensive work with couples.
Relationships are not sustained solely by communication. They are also shaped by intimacy, desire, erotic connection, vulnerability, identity, and the ability to remain emotionally present with one another.
Many couples seeking intensive work have discovered that their emotional struggles and sexual concerns are deeply interconnected. I help couples understand these intersections while creating a safe and affirming space to explore topics that are often difficult to discuss openly.
I have expertise working with:
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LGBTQIA+ couples
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Mixed-orientation relationships
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Consensually non-monogamous relationships
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Couples navigating desire discrepancies
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Infidelity recovery
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Sexual concerns related to chronic illness or medical conditions
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High-achieving professionals balancing career demands and relationships
The Goal of an Intensive
The purpose of an intensive is not to provide quick fixes.
The goal is to create meaningful movement.
Couples leave with greater clarity about the patterns shaping their relationship, a deeper understanding of one another's experiences, and practical tools for navigating challenges more effectively.
For some couples, the intensive becomes a turning point toward renewed connection and commitment. For others, it provides the structure and support necessary to make thoughtful decisions about the future of the relationship.


Location and Availability
Couples Therapy Intensives are offered in person at a private office in Manhattan.
Many couples travel from throughout New York City, New Jersey, Connecticut, Washington, DC, and beyond to participate. Intensive services are also available for couples traveling from other parts of the United States seeking a private, discreet, and highly personalized therapeutic experience.
Availability is intentionally limited to ensure that each couple receives the attention, preparation, and clinical care this work requires.
To learn more or schedule a consultation, please contact me directly.
Fee: $3,600