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Below are some of Dr. Lee’s favorite books and websites that you will find helpful.



The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, PhD

Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide by Harville Hendrix, PhD

Chronic Pain and Illness:

How To Live Well with Chronic Pain And Illness by Toni Bernhard

How To Be Sick: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide for the Chronically Ill And Their Caregivers by Toni Bernhard

When Someone You Love Has Chronic Illness by Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D

Coping with Chronic Illness (Christian Based) by H. Norman Wright and Lynn Ellis

Integrative and Lifestyle Medicine in Physical Therapy by Ginger Garner PT, DPT and Joe Tatta, PT, DPT

Radical Relief: A Guide to Overcome Chronic Pain by Joe Tatta, PT, DPT

Heal Your Pain Now by Joe Tatta, PT, DPT


Sexual Pleasure & Desire:

Sexual Awareness by Barry McCarthy, PhD and Emily McCarthy

The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment by Diana Richardson

The Pleasure Zone: Why we resist good feelings & how to let go and be happy by Stella Resnick, PhD

The Guide to Getting It on by Paul Joannides

She Comes First by Ian Kerner, PhD

Getting the Sex You Want by Tammy Nelson, PhD

Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out by Jessica Graham

Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it by Marty Klein, PhD

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller, PhD

The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex by Jessica O'Reilly, PhD & Marla Renee Stewart, MA

Sex When You Don't Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire by Cyndi Darnell

Mating in Captivity by  Esther Perel

Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences In Relationships by Lauren Fogel Mersy, PsyD and Jennifer A. Vencill, PhD, ABPP



The Orgasm Answer Guide by Barry R. Komisaruk, Beverly Whipple, Sara Nasserzadeh & Carlos Beyer-Flores


Sexual Dysfunction:

Coping with Premature Ejaculation by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD


Sex, Disability, Pain, and Chronic Illness:

Sex and Cancer: Intimacy, Romance, and Love After Diagnosis and Treatment by Saketh R. Guntupalli, MD, and Maryann Karinch

Aches, Pains, and Love: A Guide to Dating and Relationships for Those with Chronic Pain and Illness by Kira Lynn

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Kaufman, Silverberg, and Odette

Reclaiming Sex and Intimacy After Prostate Cancer: A Guide for Men and their Partner's by Jeff Albaugh 

A Quick & Easy Guide To Sex & Disability by A. Andrews

Sexual Trauma:

With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships by August McLaughlin and Jamila Dawson, LMFT

Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma & Living a Passionate Life by Holly Richmond, PhD Forwarded by Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD

The Courage to Heal Workbook: For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Laura Davis


For Psychotherapists and Sex Therapists:

LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies by Joe Kort, PhD

Cognitive -Behavioral Therapy for Sexual Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, Norman B. Epstein, and Barry McCarthy

A Therapist’s Guide to Consensual Nonmonogamy: Polyamory, Swinging, and Open Marriage by Rhea Orion 

Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s Guide to New and Innovative Approaches by Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.

Imago Relationship Therapy by Rick Brown

Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy 5th ed, by Binik and Hall 

Supporting Transgender and Non-Binary People with Disabilities or Illnesses: A Good Practice Guide for Health and Care Provision by Jennie Kermode

Sex Therapy with Erotically Marginalized Clients: Nine Principles for Client Support by Damon M. Constantinides, Shannon L. Sennott, and Davis Chandler

What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex by Stephanie Buehler

The Modern Clinician's Guide to Working. with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist by Margaret Nichols. 

Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments by Lucie Fielding


Sex Positivity: 

Sex Positive Now: Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positivity by Allena Gabosch & Jeremy Shub



The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson, PhD

When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know by Tammy Nelson, PhD

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel 


Kink and BDSM: 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

The Topping Book by Easton & Lizst

The Bottoming Book by Easton & Lizst

The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance by Anton Fulmen. 


Nonmonogamy & Polyamory:

The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

It’s Called Polyamory: Coming out about your non- monogamous relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles

The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and insights for managing open relationships by Kathy Labriola

More Than Two: A Practical Guide To Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert 

The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity 

Open Monogamy: A Guide Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Monogamy


Female Sexuality and other Vulva Owners:

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, PhD

Better Through Sex Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, PhD

Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It by Laurie Mintz, PhD


True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism for Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals by Mildred L. Brown & Chloe Ann Rounsley

Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self by Rae McDaniel, MEd, LCPC, CST


The American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) 


Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR) 


American Sexual Health Association (ASHA) 


The National Center for Sex Education 


Coalition for Positive Sexuality

Sexual Assault Ride Sharing Guide


American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB)


Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ Youth: The Trevor Project

LGBTQIA+ Friendly Drug Rehab Facilities 

LGBTQIA+ Friendly Drug Rehab Facilities Near Me


Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ 

Substance Use Treatment

Substance Use Prevention in the BIPOC Community.

Live Another Day

Detox Local 

AAPI (American Asian and Pacific Islander)

Southeast Addiction Center

Southeast Detox

The Summit Wellness Group

Louisville Addiction Center

Prevail Recovery Center

Centric Behavioral Health

ADHD Resources

people affected by ADHD.

Mental Health Resources for Asian American and Pacific Islander Community

Mental Health Resources

Sanctuary Mental Health & Wellness

Mental Health Resources for Teens

Mental Health Treatment for Teens

Maine Adolescent Mental Health Treatment Center

Adolescent Mental Health Treatment Program

Private Mental Health Boarding School for Teens

LGBTQ+ Resources

Resources For Black LGBTQ+ People

Resources for AAPI LGBTQ+ People

Resources for Transgender People

Resources for LGBTQ+ Students Experiencing Discrimination in School

Support Resource for LGBTQ+ Teachers and Allies in Education

National LGBT Cancer Network

LGBTQ+ Young Adult and Teen Mental Health Guide

LGBTQ+ Young Adults and Teen Mental Health Guide

Online Guide to Scholarships & Resources for LGBTQIA+ College Students -

The College Guide for LGBTQ+ Students

Creating LGBTQIA+ Friendly Schools and Campus Communities


Dementia and Alzheimer's Disease



Physical Therapy in DC, MD, and VA 

Indigo Physiotherapy

Between Us Clinic: Premature Ejaculation Program: (A complete guide on STD Testing) 

Contraception & Your Cycle 


Suicide Prevention 

Crisis Hotline: 1(888)793-4357

Suicide Lifeline: 1(800) 273-8255 text: 741-741

Psychology Today 

Depression Resource Guide:

Cancer Patients

American Cancer Society - Treatment and Support


American Psychological Association- Pain Management


American Psychological Association-How Stress Affects Health


ACT: AIDS Coalition Toronto: Brochure: BDSM Safer Kinky Sex


The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom


Woodhull Freedom Foundation


Mr. S. Leather: Online retailer for Kink & BDSM Gear ( Viewer Discretion Advised )

Kink Academy: On Demand Kink Education and Sex Ed.

Sex Toys and Sex Information,


Sex Toys and Sex Furniture 


Sex Education, Sex Consultation, Sex Toys 

FetLife: Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community

Tickle.Life: Discovery Platform to Understand Sex and Sexuality


Co-Occurring Disorder Treatment 

Veteran Suicide Prevention 

VA Drug Rehab Facilities & Programs 



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