Resources
Below are some of Dr. Lee’s favorite books and websites that you will find helpful.
Books
Relationships:
The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, PhD
Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide by Harville Hendrix, PhD
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Chronic Pain and Illness:
How To Live Well with Chronic Pain And Illness by Toni Bernhard
How To Be Sick: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide for the Chronically Ill And Their Caregivers by Toni Bernhard
When Someone You Love Has Chronic Illness by Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D
Coping with Chronic Illness (Christian Based) by H. Norman Wright and Lynn Ellis
Integrative and Lifestyle Medicine in Physical Therapy by Ginger Garner PT, DPT and Joe Tatta, PT, DPT
Radical Relief: A Guide to Overcome Chronic Pain by Joe Tatta, PT, DPT
Heal Your Pain Now by Joe Tatta, PT, DPT
Sexual Pleasure & Desire:
Sexual Awareness by Barry McCarthy, PhD and Emily McCarthy
The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment by Diana Richardson
The Pleasure Zone: Why we resist good feelings & how to let go and be happy by Stella Resnick, PhD
The Guide to Getting It on by Paul Joannides
She Comes First by Ian Kerner, PhD
Getting the Sex You Want by Tammy Nelson, PhD
Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out by Jessica Graham
Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it by Marty Klein, PhD
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller, PhD
The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex by Jessica O'Reilly, PhD & Marla Renee Stewart, MA
Sex When You Don't Feel Like It: The Truth About Mismatched Libido and Rediscovering Desire by Cyndi Darnell
Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
Desire: An Inclusive Guide to Navigating Libido Differences In Relationships by Lauren Fogel Mersy, PsyD and Jennifer A. Vencill, PhD, ABPP
Orgasm:
The Orgasm Answer Guide by Barry R. Komisaruk, Beverly Whipple, Sara Nasserzadeh & Carlos Beyer-Flores
Sexual Dysfunction:
Coping with Premature Ejaculation by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD
Coping with Erectile Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD
Sex, Disability, Pain, and Chronic Illness:
Sex and Cancer: Intimacy, Romance, and Love After Diagnosis and Treatment by Saketh R. Guntupalli, MD, and Maryann Karinch
Aches, Pains, and Love: A Guide to Dating and Relationships for Those with Chronic Pain and Illness by Kira Lynn
The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Kaufman, Silverberg, and Odette
Reclaiming Sex and Intimacy After Prostate Cancer: A Guide for Men and their Partner's by Jeff Albaugh
A Quick & Easy Guide To Sex & Disability by A. Andrews
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Sexual Trauma:
With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships by August McLaughlin and Jamila Dawson, LMFT
Reclaiming Pleasure: A Sex-Positive Guide for Moving Past Sexual Trauma & Living a Passionate Life by Holly Richmond, PhD Forwarded by Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD
The Courage to Heal Workbook: For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Laura Davis
For Psychotherapists and Sex Therapists:
LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies by Joe Kort, PhD
Cognitive -Behavioral Therapy for Sexual Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, Norman B. Epstein, and Barry McCarthy
A Therapist’s Guide to Consensual Nonmonogamy: Polyamory, Swinging, and Open Marriage by Rhea Orion
Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s Guide to New and Innovative Approaches by Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.
Imago Relationship Therapy by Rick Brown
Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy 5th ed, by Binik and Hall
Supporting Transgender and Non-Binary People with Disabilities or Illnesses: A Good Practice Guide for Health and Care Provision by Jennie Kermode
Sex Therapy with Erotically Marginalized Clients: Nine Principles for Client Support by Damon M. Constantinides, Shannon L. Sennott, and Davis Chandler
What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex by Stephanie Buehler
The Modern Clinician's Guide to Working. with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist by Margaret Nichols.
Trans Sex: Clinical Approaches to Trans Sexualities and Erotic Embodiments by Lucie Fielding
Sex Positivity:
Sex Positive Now: Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positivity by Allena Gabosch & Jeremy Shub
Infidelity:
The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson, PhD
When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know by Tammy Nelson, PhD
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Kink and BDSM:
The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
The Topping Book by Easton & Lizst
The Bottoming Book by Easton & Lizst
The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance by Anton Fulmen.
Nonmonogamy & Polyamory:
The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
It’s Called Polyamory: Coming out about your non- monogamous relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles
The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and insights for managing open relationships by Kathy Labriola
More Than Two: A Practical Guide To Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert
The New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity
Open Monogamy: A Guide Co-Creating Your Ideal Relationship Agreement
Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-Monogamy
Female Sexuality and other Vulva Owners:
Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, PhD
Better Through Sex Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, PhD
Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It by Laurie Mintz, PhD
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Gender:
True Selves: Understanding Transsexualism for Families, Friends, Coworkers, and Helping Professionals by Mildred L. Brown & Chloe Ann Rounsley
Gender Magic: Live Shamelessly, Reclaim Your Joy, & Step into Your Most Authentic Self by Rae McDaniel, MEd, LCPC, CST
Websites
The American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR)
American Sexual Health Association (ASHA)
The National Center for Sex Education
Coalition for Positive Sexuality
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Sexual Assault Ride Sharing Guide
cutterlaw.com/sexual-assault-ride-sharing-guide/
American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB)
Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ Youth: The Trevor Project
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LGBTQIA+ Friendly Drug Rehab Facilities
LGBTQIA+ Friendly Drug Rehab Facilities Near Me
Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
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Substance Use Treatment
https://www.chaptersrecoverycenter.com/resources/
https://northjerseyrecovery.com/
https://www.northernillinoisrecovery.com/resources/
https://kingswayrecovery.com/rehab-resources/
https://freebythesea.com/addiction-resources/college-students/
https://livefreerecoverynh.com/
https://www.rehabspot.com/treatment/inpatient-rehab/
www.AlcoholRehabGuide.org/Online-Therapy-Alcohol-Addiction
https://www.detoxrehabs.net/identify-mental-health-issues/
https://www.crestviewrecovery.com/
https://recreatebehavioralhealth.com/
https://magnoliacitydetox.com/
https://idahorecoverycenter.com/
https://wisconsinrecoveryinstitute.com/programs/dual-diagnosis/ptsd/
https://santabarbararecovery.com/treatment/dual-diagnosis/ptsd/
https://movingmountainsrecovery.com/
https://lagunashoresrecovery.com/
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Substance Use Prevention in the BIPOC Community.
AAPI (American Asian and Pacific Islander)
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ADHD Resources
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Mental Health Resources for Asian American and Pacific Islander Community
http://www.bestcolleges.com/resources/aapi-mental-health-guide/
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Mental Health Resources
https://resume.io/blog/burnout-buster-expert-tips-to-improve-your-work-life-balance
Sanctuary Mental Health & Wellness
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Mental Health Resources for Teens
https://paradigmtreatment.com/
Mental Health Treatment for Teens
https://www.ironwoodmaine.com/
Maine Adolescent Mental Health Treatment Center
Adolescent Mental Health Treatment Program
https://www.shortridgeacademy.com/
Private Mental Health Boarding School for Teens
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LGBTQ+ Resources
https://www.innerbody.com/mental-health-resources-for-the-lgbtq-community
Resources For Black LGBTQ+ People
Resources for AAPI LGBTQ+ People
Resources for Transgender People
Resources for LGBTQ+ Students Experiencing Discrimination in School
Support Resource for LGBTQ+ Teachers and Allies in Education
www.onlinespeechpathologyprograms.org/gender-affirming-verbal-communication/
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National LGBT Cancer Network
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LGBTQ+ Young Adult and Teen Mental Health Guide
LGBTQ+ Young Adults and Teen Mental Health Guide
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Online Guide to Scholarships & Resources for LGBTQIA+ College Students -
https://www.publicservicedegrees.org/financial-aid/lgbtqia-students-scholarships-resources/
https://www.lgbtqandall.com/resources/
https://www.bestcolleges.com/resources/lgbtq-financial-aid/
https://study.com/resources/mental-health-for-lgbtq-students.html#0544
https://bestaccreditedcolleges.org/articles/top-50-lgbt-friendly-colleges.html
The College Guide for LGBTQ+ Students
Creating LGBTQIA+ Friendly Schools and Campus Communities
Dementia and Alzheimer's Disease
https://www.caring.com/caregivers/crisis-guide-for-alzheimers-dementia-caregivers/
https://www.memorycare.com/what-is-a-memory-care-facility/
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Disability
https://www.bestcolleges.com/careers/benefits-of-disclosing-disability/
Physical Therapy in DC, MD, and VA
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Between Us Clinic: Premature Ejaculation Program:
https://www.betweenusclinic.com/
STDtesting.org (A complete guide on STD Testing)
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Contraception & Your Cycle
https://yoppie.com/contraception-cycles
Suicide Prevention
Crisis Hotline: 1(888)793-4357
Suicide Lifeline: 1(800) 273-8255 text: 741-741
Psychology Today
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Depression Resource Guide:
http://www.columbusrecoverycenter.com/depression-resource-guide/
https://www.fingerprintforsuccess.com/blog/depression-at-work
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Cancer Patients
https://smithcenter.org/resources/wisdom-inspiration/
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American Cancer Society - Treatment and Support
American Psychological Association- Pain Management
apa.org/topics/pain/management
American Psychological Association-How Stress Affects Health
ACT: AIDS Coalition Toronto: Brochure: BDSM Safer Kinky Sex
http://www.actoronto.org/home.nsf/pages/bdsm
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://ncsfreedom.org/who-we-are/about-ncsf.html
Woodhull Freedom Foundation
Mr. S. Leather: Online retailer for Kink & BDSM Gear ( Viewer Discretion Advised )
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/
Kink Academy: On Demand Kink Education and Sex Ed.
http://www.kinkacademy.com/home/waiver.php?return=%2Fhome%2F&e=-1
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Sex Toys and Sex Information
Sex Toys and Sex Furniture
Sex Education, Sex Consultation, Sex Toys
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FetLife: Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community
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Tickle.Life: Discovery Platform to Understand Sex and Sexuality
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Veterans
Co-Occurring Disorder Treatment
VA Drug Rehab Facilities & Programs
Disability
https://www.cerebralpalsyguide.com/treatment/
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