Resources

Below are some of Dr. Lee’s favorite books and websites that you will find helpful.

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Books

Relationships: 

The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, PhD

Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide by Harville Hendrix, PhD

 

Sexual Pleasure:

Sexual Awareness by Barry McCarthy, PhD and Emily McCarthy

The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment by Diana Richardson

The Pleasure Zone: Why we resist good feelings & how to let go and be happy by Stella Resnick, PhD

The Guide to Getting It on by Paul Joannides

She Comes First by Ian Kerner, PhD

Getting the Sex You Want by Tammy Nelson, PhD

Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out by Jessica Graham

Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it by Marty Klein, PhD

Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller, PhD

The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex by Jessica O'Reilly, PhD & Marla Renee Stewart, MA

 

Orgasm:

The Orgasm Answer Guide by Barry R. Komisaruk, Beverly Whipple, Sara Nasserzadeh & Carlos Beyer-Flores

 

Sexual Dysfunction:

Coping with Premature Ejaculation by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD

Coping with Erectile Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD

 

Sex, Disability, Pain, and Chronic Illness:

Sex and Cancer: Intimacy, Romance, and Love After Diagnosis and Treatment by Saketh R. Guntupalli, MD, and Maryann Karinch

Aches, Pains, and Love: A Guide to Dating and Relationships for Those with Chronic Pain and Illness by Kira Lynn

The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Kaufman, Silverberg, and Odette

 

For Psychotherapists and Sex Therapists:

LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies by Joe Kort, PhD

Cognitive -Behavioral Therapy for Sexual Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, Norman B. Epstein, and Barry McCarthy

A Therapist’s Guide to Consensual Nonmonogamy: Polyamory, Swinging, and Open Marriage by Rhea Orion 

Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s Guide to New and Innovative Approaches by Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.

Imago Relationship Therapy by Rick Brown

Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy 5th ed, by Binik and Hall 

Supporting Transgender and Non-Binary People with Disabilities or Illnesses: A Good Practice Guide for Health and Care Provision by Jennie Kermode

 

Sex Positivity: 

Sex Positive Now: Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positivity by Allena Gabosch & Jeremy Shub

 

Infidelity:

The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson, PhD

When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know by Tammy Nelson, PhD

Mating in Captivity by  Esther Perel

The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel 

 

Kink and BDSM: 

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

The Topping Book by Easton & Lizst

The Bottoming Book by Easton & Lizst

 

Nonmonogamy & Polyamory:

The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton

It’s Called Polyamory: Coming out about your nonmonogamous relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles

The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and insights for managing open relationships by Kathy Labriola

 

Female Sexuality and other Vulva Owners:

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, PhD

Better Through Sex Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, PhD

Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It by Laurie Mintz, PhD

Websites

The American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) 

www.aasect.org 

 

Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR)

www.SSTARnet.org 

American Sexual Health Association (ASHA)

www.ashasexualhealth.org 

 

The National Center for Sex Education 

www.sexcenter.org 

 

Coalition for Positive Sexuality

www.positive.org

 

American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB)

www.americaninstitute.org

 

Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ Youth: The Trevor Project

www.thetrevorproject.org

 

Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ

www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org 

 

STDtesting.org (A complete guide on STD Testing)

www.stdtesting.org 

 

Suicide Prevention 

Crisis Hotline: 1(888)793-4357

Suicide Lifeline: 1(800) 273-8255 text: 741-741

www.suicideprevention.org


 

Psychology Today

www.psychologytoday.com 

 

ACT: AIDS Coalition Toronto: Brochure: BDSM Safer Kinky Sex
http://www.actoronto.org/home.nsf/pages/bdsm

 

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://ncsfreedom.org/who-we-are/about-ncsf.html

 

Woodhull Freedom Foundation 

www.woodhullfoundation.org

 

Mr. S. Leather: Online retailer for Kink & BDSM Gear ( Viewer Discretion Advised )
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/

 


Kink Academy: On Demand Kink Education and Sex Ed.
http://www.kinkacademy.com/home/waiver.php?return=%2Fhome%2F&e=-1

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Sex Toys and Sex Information

www.goodvibes.com 

 

Sex Toys and Sex Furniture

www.liberatorshop.com 

 

Sex Education, Sex Consultation, Sex Toys

www.exxxiteme.com 

Dr. Lee

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