Resources
Below are some of Dr. Lee’s favorite books and websites that you will find helpful.
Books
Relationships:
The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, PhD
Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Harville Hendrix, PhD
Keeping the Love You Find: A Personal Guide by Harville Hendrix, PhD
Chronic Pain and Illness:
How To Live Well with Chronic Pain And Illness by Toni Bernhard
How To Be Sick: A Buddhist-Inspired Guide for the Chronically Ill And Their Caregivers by Toni Bernhard
When Someone You Love Has Chronic Illness by Tamara McClintock Greenberg, Psy.D
Coping with Chronic Illness (Christian Based) by H. Norman Wright and Lynn Ellis
Sexual Pleasure:
Sexual Awareness by Barry McCarthy, PhD and Emily McCarthy
The Heart of Tantric Sex: A Unique Guide to Love and Sexual Fulfilment by Diana Richardson
The Pleasure Zone: Why we resist good feelings & how to let go and be happy by Stella Resnick, PhD
The Guide to Getting It on by Paul Joannides
She Comes First by Ian Kerner, PhD
Getting the Sex You Want by Tammy Nelson, PhD
Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out by Jessica Graham
Sexual Intelligence: What we really want from sex and how to get it by Marty Klein, PhD
Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life by Justin Lehmiller, PhD
The Ultimate Guide to Seduction & Foreplay: Techniques and Strategies for Mind-Blowing Sex by Jessica O'Reilly, PhD & Marla Renee Stewart, MA
Orgasm:
The Orgasm Answer Guide by Barry R. Komisaruk, Beverly Whipple, Sara Nasserzadeh & Carlos Beyer-Flores
Sexual Dysfunction:
Coping with Premature Ejaculation by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD
Coping with Erectile Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, PhD and Barry McCarthy, PhD
Sex, Disability, Pain, and Chronic Illness:
Sex and Cancer: Intimacy, Romance, and Love After Diagnosis and Treatment by Saketh R. Guntupalli, MD, and Maryann Karinch
Aches, Pains, and Love: A Guide to Dating and Relationships for Those with Chronic Pain and Illness by Kira Lynn
The Ultimate Guide to Sex and Disability by Kaufman, Silverberg, and Odette
Reclaiming Sex and Intimacy After Prostate Cancer: A Guide for Men and their Partner's by Jeff Albaugh
A Quick & Easy Guide To Sex & Disability by A. Andrews
For Psychotherapists and Sex Therapists:
LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies by Joe Kort, PhD
Cognitive -Behavioral Therapy for Sexual Dysfunction by Michael E. Metz, Norman B. Epstein, and Barry McCarthy
A Therapist’s Guide to Consensual Nonmonogamy: Polyamory, Swinging, and Open Marriage by Rhea Orion
Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy: A Therapist’s Guide to New and Innovative Approaches by Dr. Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.
Imago Relationship Therapy by Rick Brown
Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy 5th ed, by Binik and Hall
Supporting Transgender and Non-Binary People with Disabilities or Illnesses: A Good Practice Guide for Health and Care Provision by Jennie Kermode
Sex Therapy with Erotically Marginalized Clients: Nine Principles for Client Support by Damon M. Constantinides, Shannon L. Sennott, and Davis Chandler
What Every Mental Health Professional Needs to Know About Sex by Stephanie Buehler
The Modern Clinician's Guide to Working. with LGBTQ+ Clients: The Inclusive Psychotherapist by Margaret Nichols.
Sex Positivity:
Sex Positive Now: Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positivity by Allena Gabosch & Jeremy Shub
Infidelity:
The New Monogamy by Tammy Nelson, PhD
When You’re The One Who Cheats: Ten Things You Need To Know by Tammy Nelson, PhD
Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity by Esther Perel
Kink and BDSM:
The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
The Topping Book by Easton & Lizst
The Bottoming Book by Easton & Lizst
The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance by Anton Fulmen.
Nonmonogamy & Polyamory:
The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
It’s Called Polyamory: Coming out about your nonmonogamous relationships by Tamara Pincus and Rebecca Hiles
The Jealousy Workbook: Exercises and insights for managing open relationships by Kathy Labriola
More Than Two: A Practical Guide To Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux and Eve Rickert
Female Sexuality and other Vulva Owners:
Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, PhD
Better Through Sex Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire by Lori A. Brotto, PhD
Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It by Laurie Mintz, PhD
Websites
The American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR)
American Sexual Health Association (ASHA)
The National Center for Sex Education
Coalition for Positive Sexuality
American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB)
Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ Youth: The Trevor Project
Suicide Prevention for LGBTQ
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
STDtesting.org (A complete guide on STD Testing)
Suicide Prevention
Crisis Hotline: 1(888)793-4357
Suicide Lifeline: 1(800) 273-8255 text: 741-741
Psychology Today
Depression Resource Guide:
http://www.columbusrecoverycenter.com/depression-resource-guide/
Cancer Patients
https://smithcenter.org/resources/wisdom-inspiration/
ACT: AIDS Coalition Toronto: Brochure: BDSM Safer Kinky Sex
http://www.actoronto.org/home.nsf/pages/bdsm
The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
https://ncsfreedom.org/who-we-are/about-ncsf.html
Woodhull Freedom Foundation
Mr. S. Leather: Online retailer for Kink & BDSM Gear ( Viewer Discretion Advised )
http://www.mr-s-leather.com/
Kink Academy: On Demand Kink Education and Sex Ed.
http://www.kinkacademy.com/home/waiver.php?return=%2Fhome%2F&e=-1
Sex Toys and Sex Information
Sex Toys and Sex Furniture
Sex Education, Sex Consultation, Sex Toys
FetLife: Social Network for the BDSM, Fetish & Kinky Community
Tickle.Life: Discovery Platform to Understand Sex and Sexuality